A mother of four, identified as Ruth Brownie on Facebook is not only hurt that her husband is still sleeping with his baby mama, but also frustrated that he has taken sides with the said woman who finds pleasure in humiliating her.
According to the frustrated Nigerian lady, since she gave birth to her last child who is barely 2 months old, her husband rarely spends time at home as he is mostly with his baby mama.
She also said that her husband is proud of his sex life with this baby mam as he comes home every now and then to boast about it. Below is her post shared on a Facebook page…
”My first rant..I recently found out hubby still having an affair with baby mama..he sleeps in her house whenever he goes to visit his son..complain about me to baby mama how I always hide my pregnancy from him until it’s four months before letting him know about it..every little thing I do baby mama has to know..when I was pregnant n admitted in hospital he told her…I was actually admitted thrice cos I was really so sick..baby mama used this to insult me ..she told me how am too dirty ..that probably it’s because of my dirtyness dats y I keep going to the hospital..how I should keep my kids clean just de way she’s keeping her son clean..she told me if she wasn’t a clean n beautiful prostitute my hubby won’t be running after her…she said people get pregnant in Europe and dey tell dier husbands in a few weeks but mine had to take months..she said I de worst part is that I don’t even Kno how to cook that God should help me.. I showed hubby all these insults..guys de man bone con ter me dat I shuu not dare say a word to baby mama..I have never been humiliated in my whole life like this..hubby says am de woman of de house I should not fight dos outside..I told him with all dis sickness weey fuul everywhere..he said he doesn’t sleep with a woman who has sickness..we have three kids..buh he doesn’t even care if am hurt.. am so hurting like never before..my mother said I should try not to cry as it will ruin de baby’s breast milk..dear ranters..my heart is heavy….I still have after birth pains..lately he told me to go get a job dat I have to contribute to de hse rent..how do I start with a one month two weeks old baby and a two year old..my first son is not with me..am just tayad..can’t think straight anymore..baby mama has two teenage girls…wen I gave birth ..just three weeks.. hubby left dat he’s going to visit his son..I asked him wats de urgency dat it’s three weeks I have dis baby he should know I need a helping hand..I wonder what he n baby mama are teaching dos her teenage girls when they do at night…..hubby will even come back and boast about his sex life with baby mama..asking me wats wrong if he sleeps with her …as in he has dated her before so there nothing wrong if he goes back sleeping with her..to him it’s not cheating…..it’s freedom..how can he be cheating and boasting about it….dear ranters are u thinking what am thinking????dis is my rant…#feelingsohurtandhumiliated
Marriage na by force?