Stop Apologizing For Me

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Good morning  all,

I’m concerned about this Ezewanyi and tangerine beef,am kinda roped in it cos some people Might think am tangerine,please am not. If there’s anybody’s comment I kinda look out for is Ahdaisy’s. 

Ever since I started reading this blog(like 10months now) I’ve always love her person and “voltronises“(pardon my English) for her too whenever I agree with her idea,if I don’t I just move to the next  infact there was a post Ahdaisy commented on where Sister
bashed her so much that I had to take up the name “ME” (the original) to bash sister too and even haunted her (sister)in subsequent post and when she said she found christ I left her. That was the last time I used that name “ME”.I was surprised to see someone else bash another using the name “ME”(fake) to make it look like it was still me and this made me decide to open a google account.

Before I opened the Google account I usually comment and still type my name Creamberry.
 The reason for this epistle is simply to clear everyone’s mind (Esp. Lizzy) that I’m not Tangerine and also do not have anything against Ahdaisy and definitely do not hold anything against sister or Eziwanyi as the case maybe,and also to ask the real Tangerine to stop apologizing on my behalf hence it look as if it’s still Creamberry typing with Tangerine’s name

Peace.

68 thoughts on “Stop Apologizing For Me”

  1. Eya, your God is alive o. He is revealing secrets now. So some ppl have names for sweet honourable comments and other names for dishonourable comments.

    May the internet not take some people to hell I pray.

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  4. OMG. I've just gone back to read d comment that some fake Lizzy wrote. So annoying that some1 will pretend 2 be me. Whoever it is is pretending to b me coz I've not seen any1 else use d name 'Lizzy' on this blog.
    Now I get where u coming from Creamberry. Hope this clears it.

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  5. Lizzy ke. Creamberry I dunno what u are talking about o. I was trying to read comments all over again to pick up d Ezewanyi, Sister and Tangerine beef and I still don't get it coz I couldn't find anything or mayb aunty Eya deleted those comments.
    I didn't even comment so never mind Cream baby we cool.

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  8. Eya where are d comments naa I no siddon well again see what ezewanyi has caused eh eya pls ungate d comments just for today body just dey itch me for amebo

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  9. Pls, it haf do o….

    One thing I like about this blog is that we all care so much to either like or dislike someone… It's just like a real town hall or village meeting as some people have called it. They meant it as an insult but I see it as a compliment.

    This is the only blog where we fight hard and dirty and still refer to ourselves as fam. Imagine saying 'LIB Family or LLB family'…naah…aint werking. But WC family sounds very normal. We still ask for advice or post our meals even when we see that others have been bashed to pieces…loolz

    A blog were people disagree with each other so much and still manage to kiss and make up e.g Sister and I, Madam S……or maybe that's a bit too far…lol.

    It's the only blog where we treat each other's f*up on one post, then move to the other to wish someone a happy birthday or applaud one's cooking or sympathize with someone. ( I still want to know wassup with the Ikorodu woman and The Wife afraid of sex, I hope her friend's actions here did not cause more trouble for her).

    Sometimes I even forget to check LIB or any other blog….until after some days…or maybe when it's a slow day here.

    Pls, let's all just agree to disgree. We can't all love each other…but we can be civil atleast. You can yab someone without cusses, fowl words, venom or getting personal. I know how to do that one very well. hehehe… I mean you can yab ur sibling without calling the person despicable names or making assumptions about how their lives are.

    I dunno about you but I feel happy when I read a comment from an elderly person or even a man. Like the man that commented at the tail end of the Husband Rape post. I mean..I have learnt so much from here.

    So d summary of my speech is this… I dnt have anything against anyone. Let's just remember we are all real life breathing alive human beings with feelings.

    Thank you, Sorry if I annoy you on a daily basis..:-D. I love you all! God bless Wives' Connection and Everyone here.

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  12. Lol. How do some of you take up all the blog comments that these sister and Ezewanyi are probably just typing and having fun with serious? Please o. Some of you will be giving yourselves nightmares cos of WC. I hail una. Tangerine doesn't bash Ahdaisy last time I checked. They were having a healthy conversation. Hmm. Creamberry so u r bothered cos of a name? Isn't dat y u opened a google acc. Don't worry. Your employer isn't on WC to know who d real or fake me is. Keep calm.

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  13. Eya this post is so unnecessary. Doesn't make sense to me and sudnt occupy space. Creamberry please carry your pettishness somewere else. Nobody really cares. yawns.

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  15. And to think that i always suspected someone else as that ME ehn, I'm sure more names will surface.
    Creamberry darling, you just goofed!

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  16. EYA STOP DECEIVN YOUR SELF . IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SPEAK THEIR MINDS YOU BETTER STOP THIS COMMENT APPROVAL SHIT OR YOU POST ALL THE COMMENTS YOU RECIEVE. REGARDLESS OF WHOSE OX IS GORED

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  18. Ok ooooo. We don hear.
    Am sorry to deviate, aunty eya, pls how can i stop doz weevils dat normally eat stock fish(okporoko). Sumtyms i do put dem under d sun bt dt weevil is destroyin my stockfish badly. #Sobs#

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  21. Breeze e blow go and we haff seen d anus of d fowl
    See ur enemies Ahdaisy
    Creamberry it is well am sure Ahda will understand

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  23. I am afraid d extent some people go on internet scares me
    Who could ve believe that this innocent looking woman could be capable of this deception
    Abeg I no do spirit work again no more Ezewanyi another person can take up d name am still too young to engage in this stuff I felt d blog was dry though to sisters absense I never bargain for this
    Ezewanyi runs aways and never coming back

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  24. Creamberry, you get time to dey justify yourself cos of some idle crazy lunatic. Whether na Tangerine or Orange or Grape abi na Ezewanyi abi na Ezenwanyi abi na Wanyi eze…who cares really? Intelligent people know that ignoring is what best answers such clowns. Can't you see the way she keeps ranting on every post made doing ctrl C and ctrl V. Anyway sha…all these happens when we allow compliments gets to our head and then you start feeling like a superstar in another man's farmland. And then we say we are wives yet we don't know when to be silent and ignore sumthings or stick to your guns and drive a point home or even when to be rigid or flexible. Mscheww….this is internet, nobody knows anybody here so why get worried over nothing or start saying you like one person and dislike another….its all these unnecessary show of supports that breeds all these lunatic xters that springs up. When a post is made….say your bit about the post and move on….must you women start forming communities of supporters club and haters club? shio, kelebe…tue. Abeg…a word is enough for the wise jor. Good riddiance….

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  26. Y am I not surprised.she even accused me yesterday that I was sister because I disagreed with a point yesterday.I put it to u that u were d person impersonating Ahdaisy on blogs

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  29. Creamberry aka me and tangerine when did u finish sister she yabbed u so much that I felt sorry for u

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  31. Jay lol…some times whether you use fake name or real name, once someone is referring to you and accusing you wrongly, it hurts. Many people feel, well it's the internet, she is too petty that's why she doesn't ignore. Wait until it happens to you. I mean, it's just like two posts and she is offended. That's what I receive on almost every post. Even someone who doesn't comment here again, felt bad that she was accused wrongly here and all…so any which way, it hurts.

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  33. EYA STOP DECEIVN YOUR SELF . IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SPEAK THEIR MINDS YOU BETTER STOP THIS COMMENT APPROVAL SHIT OR YOU POST ALL THE COMMENTS YOU RECIEVE. REGARDLESS OF WHOSE OX IS GORED

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  36. How do we tell d real from d fake.wait both of u are anon
    Creamberry pls knock it off d real lizzy or fake has already commented

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  38. Mehhhnnn, at a point like this, i miss my amebo friends #u know urselves#
    Creamberry was/is one of the trouble makers of WC yoo, choi, Oma come and see what my eyes haff seen o!
    *claps 2x* who wuda thot? Aunty biko stop gating comments, its getting interesting. And we'd be blaming innocent people, lawd!

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  39. It has happened to jay I called her out on long essay but she replied me in a civil way that I had to apologise to her unlike u ahdaisy u would ve thrown tantrums everyone respects Jay and she says her mind she doesn't go with d norm to creambury what were u thinking

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  40. It happens to me too sometimes, I guess. Like when Nnenne said I was copying you or when some anonymous people start calling 'JaY' an ITK or they probably just make some remarks cos of an 'epistle'.

    But hey, what da hell? ​LOOL. I don't know how to get hurt by those oh. As long as I'm concerned, they are talking to 'JaY' not 'the real me'. And besides, it's them that have the headaches and high blood pressures and sleepless nights. I would gladly sip my ribena and watch them keep getting tensed up over 'JaY'. Like seriously. LOOL.

    I just always picture it like this: you are here in 9ja, dealing with a scorching sun, trying to fix your gen, trying to beat traffic and someone is probably in the US sitting comfortably with 24/7 light, good transport system and is having fun 'bashing' on the internet and then, you that is in 9ja will now want to add to your 99 problems and bash that person back? Naaaah. Kent werk.

    Aint nobody got time for dat 🙂

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  45. See what famzing don cost u creamberry! Lmao. All ye google account folks,na so una dey do she? Come here to pose like saints under ya accounts;then made bad comments as faceless people! God don catch una today.
    But seriously,its surprising how far people take the internet o. Dearies,don't get carried away too much o! Its just a blog fa!

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  50. To think that I suspected Madam Sting too. Our Doctor sorryooooooooo. You be better Doctor jare!!!!!!!

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  51. Now I know it wasn't sting all this while. Madam Sting too correct to do that kind of dirty impersonation.

    We go soon know who be that real tangerine, Ezenwanyi and sister #WaitingForMoreRevelations

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  53. Hi Anon,
    I actually didn't know what to type earlier…
    Well, after re-reading the post, I think Creamberry wanted to clear her name but this confession has done more harm than good cause it'd be hard for her to prove that she hasn't made some comments under any more aliases…
    In any case I think we should all move on and let bygones be bygones..
    All the very best

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  58. Not nice calling people elderly just because you think they are old. People can be older ( 50's or 60's) but that does not make them elderly.
    Non Africans especially do not like it.

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  65. But Jay dear, you'll agree with me that you are as good as anonymous. No one has seen a picture of you. You have never even done any post contribution that has maybe a picture of ur plate at home or something. You get? So it is easier for you to brush off attacks.. Moreover , people are different. People say I like replying and bla bla bla…I laugh cos even when as anonymous, they get attacked, they still come back with their anonymous to reply the attacker. Upon they are anonymous o… So dat u can brush off things easily, doesn't mean others can.

    I know that Creamberry is not as evil as they want to paint her now cos if she were she wouldn't have done this post. They are looking for a scape goat even the newest trouble maker on the blog is now forming innocent. Moreover most of you shouting do the same and worse too… Now everyone is claiming shocked. It's not one person that causes trouble on this blog so who are the others? Anyway sha, make everybody take several chill pills abeg…

    Nnenne, there was a time when I tried to be nice, I was called pretender and goody two shoes. They mite be pissed at Jay cos of her long posts, but mine is different. Some people's anger towards me here is way beyond what I type. I know that. Afterall, how do u explain the fact that I commented a post not relating to advise or marriage, I dint even say anything concerning myself or hub there, yet someone came from nowhere and called me a barren woman and an ashewo. What caused that one? And even though some people attacked the person, there were others who were laughing with her and 'having fun' at my expense.

    Anon, sorry I used the word 'elderly'. Kindly give me an alternative word.

    Amanda and all, I knew it wasn't Madam Sting all along. And it wasn't Creamberry either. I have a more accurate guess. In due time, it will all be revealed.

    Anon, Thanks for ur wish, but I am not the 'Cute Mom to Be'. And with all due respect, it's insinuations like this that kinda piss me off. No need trying to find out who the person is. If a person makes a post with hidden identity, just leave it at that.

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  66. Ahdaisy & JaY, yeah it does hurt; really really hurt. People don't know the impact that spoken words do to an individual. It can make or mar the individual.

    Whether using a moniker or real name, being cyberbullied isn't good at all.

    I simply ignore unpleasant comments and reply the "tackling" ones with wisdom and civility.

    Some people can be so BITTER! Kai!

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  67. Creamberry you don goof!
    My advice enh adopt anoda name, and keep using it. Forget creamberry for now, you don spoil that name…
    Nor go goof like this when u marry oh! Shuooo!
    Trying to sleep jor!
    After I don send my househelp go comot… Hey! See house work wan kpai me oh!

    Patsy

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  68. Creamberry you don goof!
    My advice enh adopt anoda name, and keep using it. Forget creamberry for now, you don spoil that name…
    Nor go goof like this when u marry oh! Shuooo!
    Trying to sleep jor!
    After I don send my househelp go comot… Hey! See house work wan kpai me oh!

    Patsy

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  69. @ivy,let me break it down for u creamberry is tangerine and me then Ahdaisy is cute mun to be Ahdaisy said Ezenwanyi is sister and I say madam sting is innocent

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  72. Exactly @Rubynnia. The main thing is to tackle your attacker with 'wisdom and civility'.

    Of course, if someone calls u a copy-copy, your 1st reaction will be one of err, hurt and surprise maybe. But I chose at that instance, to dis-arm Nnenne and take the power from her. Instead of me to feel hurt, as was meant to be, I'd turn it around and make the game she brought on, turn tables, but with 'civility', not like one dugbe market woman. You dig? Well, different people different reactions sha. We aren't all d same.

    But it's your choice. If you come back to the attacker giving them what they want, which is your time and a blog fight, you have just succeeded in empowering them to keep being bitter on the internet. Two wrongs can never make a right. Lai lai

    We don't know ourselves outside here. So why fight? What if we meet outside and need each other's favours, are we gonna 'hate' somehow cos of WC?

    To avoid being cyber bullied, if you can't really take it, have a bit of privacy. If you use your google account, then change your privacy settings and all that. The point is, don't give your attackers the very weapon they'd use in fighting you.

    Let me ask Ahdaisy, do u think that if you were an extremely busy CEO of a bank, who just happens to visit WC once in a while, with your public account and u share posts with your kitchen and face, you'd have time reply internet bullies? For where? You wouldn't. Have u met your target for d month finish ni. There r more pressing problems dan one random youth cussing u on a blog o.

    It's all in the mind dear. But I don't really quite agree with the notion that if u are attacked, cos you are anonymous, picture wise or kitchen posts-wise, u wouldn't be really hurt like dat. Hurt is hurt. People will bash no matter what. Wasn't Cute-mom-to-be bashed? We don't know her face oh or her kitchen. Wasn't she deeply hurt? She was of cos.

    I feel to a large extent Ahdaisy, u keep empowering these lovers of yours. For instance, the sherlock holmes thing. There is an unwritten law, your name wasn't mentioned, why fret? Why? Except you wanted drama sha for those complaining the blog had been dry. So, I can understand. Lol

    Bottom line is, we are different people, different backgrounds and time zones. If u keep disturbing your head over what someone who doesn't know u said about u, then wahala dey o. U will agree with me that u will get tired of it all one day and just leave. Just pick your battles wisely and with civility.

    Keyword is civility and wisdom sha. You have to also learn to 'ignore' as Rubynnia and I obviously do. Don't give your attackers ' the power' and 'attention' they so crave too.

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  73. @Ahdaisy: My dear, and also, even if u feel hurt, just watch the way u react. U saw the food post by the dressed blogger and a comment someone left that was spiteful and would have hurt her. But her reply was so elegant, such that there's no way that person would ever pick on her again and the person would even respect her and start visiting her blog sef.
    So, my dear, u can turn a hate to a good thing. It's all about how u choose to handle it. U can even go all sarcastic with the ashewo thing instead of trying to justify yourself to people u don't know. Or better still, ignore. Once u go either of both ways, u have gained power. Don't u think that if u replied with "Oh girl, no be small thing o, market last night no sell like that, na e make me dey WC so", that person will not know what else to say after that? It could even now turn from a fight to a joke sef. Everybody will apologise, kiss and hug and move over to the next post. But if you keep trying to 'hit back', u will agree with me that it has not done much for you over the months. They don't just stop.

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  74. Lool Ahdaisy stop mistaking nice with pretense
    Everyone hates pretenders
    Were u d only person on this blog
    Y were u targeted I think u know d answers to that
    Creamberry see what ur famzing has cost u abi na Ahdaisy dey feed u shior

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  75. Na wah oooo! All this crucifixion on top Creamberry's head. She's said she's not Tangerine, why can't we give her the benefit of doubt? How are we so sure that some of you screaming "blue murder" don't takeup different names to show your other sides on this blog?

    She confessed that she was "Me" at a point just to prove that she was totally on Ahdaisy's side and couldn't have also taken the name "Tangerine" to call Ahdaisy out. Please let's stop acting like she committed a grieveous crime when she's probably innocent.

    Some pple have said that this is just a blog….don't take it too seriously…..and i agree. Life doesn't begin and end on blogs. Ahdaisy might not be "Cute-mom-to-be" either, so please let's stop flinging accusations around. I would have said that the real "Tangerine" should please surface and clear the air well, but we might all say that it's still Creamberry doing damage control.

    *Shrugs*

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  76. So I'm sick and tired of you all bashing on Creamberry. Leave her alone and face the real creamberry if you can. She confessed unlike most of you still hiding and bashing. I will expose you all just wait for me.

    Creamberry pls carry go and dust all their ins.

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  77. Choi! Una no dey go church?
    Jay i like ur reasoning o but ur novel is outta dis world. Make una try go church ehn and pray for everybody. Biko everybody must not love everybody sef.

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  79. @ Jay, you are ao on point. Truth is, right from the start I knew how to avoid been cyber bullied. But towing that line is boring to me sometimes. lool… You are so right about the Sherlock post. Trust me, when I type a comment, I know how it will be perceived… I just continue cos let's face it…I am on the internet cos I get bored easily.

    My normal everyday life is that I always have a million things to do but I do many things at the same time…then I come here to cool off and grab a laugh or two. Days that I dnt comment is cos 'The Thing Around My Neck' has gotten so much that commenting on blogs(I only comment on this anyway) has to give.

    Trust me, I know how to deflate anger, but I'm not here for that cos I dnt see why ppl shud be bothered by my existence here. I mean many of them form busy and dnt care if I exist, yet when I type a dot…they are there to bash it.

    see, I dnt care about Soccer at all"!!! I cudnt care less if every footballer in the world just disappeared, so it wud be stupid for me to sit down and start bashing them, or the game. So this has been my point.

    But I get where you're coming from…who cares right? Well, like I said, people are different and that's y people still try to bash you. When I see it I'm like seriously? Anyone who bashes Jay (and Ruby) really has a problem. 😉

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  80. I actually don't get anyone who tries to 'bash' anyone.
    I keep saying I've disagreed with you, Eya, Ace but its not about insulting people. Its normal to disagree cause you don't approve of what someone says but when you've done that, keep it moving.
    I've never been able to understand the reason behind insulting people and I've always spoken against it.
    All this has dragged on way too long IMO

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  85. Some funny ish going on here. As far as I remember, the last time I made a comment here was the time Baby Oku accused Cream of being me (Tangerine). I came out here and cleared the air, and cream appreciated me for doing that. I also said that I know that you pple won't believe me, but that I won't bother convincing anyone otherwise 'cos I ain't gat time for that shit. Now I'm back and what do I see? Some imposter pretending to me and making crazy comments. Abeg, abeg, abeg! I AM Tangerine. I dont have a google acct and this is the name I use when I have time to comment on blogs. And I dont make trouble on blogs. Like Jay remembered, that time, I didn't bash Ahdaisy, I was only trying to have a conversation with her, but sadly, I wasn't here to reply her wen she asked me how she makes pple commit sin (my bad Ada) so I didn't snub her like someone insinuated, calling me a vile creature. I simply wasn't here to reply 'cos I'm a busy person. Someone also said that I was cheering Sister on while she bashed Ahdaisy. I replied the anon but unfortunately, Eya didn't publish the comment because I called the anon stupid and also said the anon has the memory of a 95 year old. Creamberry is a different person from me, so make una free her. I dont look for trouble, I still love Ahdaisy, and I still insist that Sister and Ezenwanyi are one and the same. I'm out.

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  88. ​
    LOOL @ anyone who bashes Jay and Ruby really has a problem and "towing that line is boring to me sometimes". LoooL. I thought as much. Lol

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