As shared on SM… Dear Sisters I am desperate and in tears, in fact I have lost the meaning of life.
My marriage has been a bundle of tears all through.
I got married as a single mother of one boy of six years and now am 4months pregnant. The main issue with my marriage is my son and my husband, honesty speaking without taking sides my son is obedient and has never been rude to my husband. But my husband always complain that my son hates him.
On the other side I see the difference because he is the one who always beats him with the belt almost everyday in the name of disciplining the boy. He even cane him of getting a cold just because he coughed at night saying that he is disturbing his sleep with coughs.If he fails even a single question in school that is a war.They don’t share anything in the house even the hours of eating we don’t eat together, after finishing his homework I take his food to his bedroom after he finish he sleeps until the next Morning and that is the routine.
Am fed up and tied of my husband behavior but at the same time I want to keep my marriage. Please advice me wisely don’t forget my husband is a dictator and he also beats me anyhow without minding my pregnancy
I would advise to take the boy to his grandparents. If you can afford it, you maybe put him in a boarding school and save him from the hell he is in right now.
Also report your husband to someone he respects and listens to so they can talk sense in to him because beating a pregnant woman???
Hmmmm.
Sister, you’re in an abusive marriage and if care is not taken this would end up very disastrous. Your life, and that of your children – son & baby(ies), is in danger.
As advised by Auntie Eya, talk to someone your husband respects (if any). If there’s none – RUN for your life before it’s too late!! But please, take that boy out from that house before it’s too late. The little lad’s emotions is being tampered with and the consequences might be far reaching.
I believe there should be NGOs that would be glad to help out here…