It’s really not about you not cooking his pepper soup at night. If he truly craved pepper soup, hubby would have stopped at the market/supermarket. He would have shopped the fish on his way home. This was his way of announcing his other relationship to you. Making you feel worthless and useless.
Even a pregnant woman craving fish pepper soup could have understood that you just came back from work too and need a little rest after cooking dinner. He could have just waited till the next day to enjoy the pepper soup but ‘NO’
Honestly, It’s not ok for him to treat his wife like this because, marriage is not slavery.
When he returns from his fish pepper soup eating trip. Don’t bring up the matter. Let him wait forever for your reaction. There’s no need to ask for an explanation. It’s obvious. Focus on yourself and your kids. Use protection.
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My husband just came back from work by 7. O’clock, had his bath, I served him his food, he rejected it and told me that he wanted to it fish pepper soup, how can I make fish pepper soup by this time and I also just came back from work.
I told him that it is not possible that he should wait till tomorrow, fish pepper soup is something I have to plan and it takes time, he got upset and called me lazy. In my presence , he picked up his phone and called a girl, he put the phone on speaker, and told the girl he wanted fish pepper soup.
The girl responded and told him that she will rush to the supermarket now and buy fish, he should start coming. My own husband dressed up and drove out of the house. I was just looking at him in shock as he dressed up, picked his car keys and zoomed off.
I need to know if I did anything wrong, do you think I should have gone out to buy fish this night?
I just came back from work too after the long traffic. What can I do now, this is the height of disrespect…
Who else thinks that her husband wanted an excuse to go out that night?