A woman has been libido shamed by other women for asking what to do to enable her husband give more and satisfy her in the other room. First she explains that when she got married, she never liked sxx. That her husband complained, taught her and she became a pro.
Now she is ready for it, he gets a new job that’s very demanding and returns home tired every day. His tiredness is affecting their drive because now she wants what he taught her to do and he cannot perform complaining daily of tiredness.
My first instinct when I read her plea on Social Media was to advise that she adds sex enhancing drugs like viagra to his juice at night. But then, I quickly changed my mind because of the side effects.
I can’t believe that fellow women and wives are telling her to get a job and forget about sex because it’s not food.
No one should experience li ido shaming. Some husbands actually do this, they say these things and make the woman begin to shy away from demanding for their rightful biological food. Wives too do libido shame their husband, making them feel like they are asking for too much when actually the are not. Just that the libidos aren’t the same.
What the women said to this sex starved wife are things we shouldn’t’;t say to any sewx starved person. Whether man or woman. Sex is a part of marriage and if one person is not getting the food when they are hungry, then maybe they are being starved.
Sometimes, when people ask for advice, it’s best to not say anything if it’s going to make them feel uncomfortable or regret asking the question.
Look at the advice given to the outspoken wife and share your thoughts too.
It’s very simple. Adjust the time of the sex. If he’s too tired at night due to a stressful day, then early hours of the morning, like 4.30 am is cool. By then he woukd have rested well and also will make him to have a productive day ahead. My hubby too hardly engage in bedtime sex, he prefers early morning when he’s well rested and fullbof energy.