Many became housewives not because they do not like to work but because kids came with more responsibilities and turns that gave them no other option. That’s life!
Mom is a banker who hardly has time for her family but thankfully there’s a nanny that keeps the kids after school until mum closes from work. The nanny is a grandma with other kids to look after. Banker mum discovers that her daughter has started to tickle her clitoris and cunt. Investigations reveal that another child has been playing with this little girl.
Why she posted her problem online is to ask for advice because she feels like this might lead to hubby asking her to resign and stay with their children since there is no other option available.
What’s your advice please. Read her story below and share your thoughts…
“I’m a mother of three lovely kids. My first daughter is almost four years old, the second is almost two years old while my first son is four months old. I’m a banker, therefore I hardly have time for my family, my hubby is simply the best husband anyone can think of. He’s Godly, responsible, supportive etc. My family is nothing less than a home.
Now to the main problem.
Last week, my hubby complained about our first daughter touching her vj and sucking her tongue ( normally she touches her navel while sucking). He said I should observe her which I did but saw nothing. Then yesterday we were all in the sitting room watching a movie when she my hubby touched me gently and said I should watch her, lo and behold she was so carried away as she was busy sucking, pressing her navel with one hand while the other hand was on her vj.
I flogged very well and warned her never to do that again, but I still wasn’t satisfied because there can’t be a smoke without fire. Mind you we are dedicated Christian couple, we don’t make the mistake of assuming that they are asleep for us to get intimate. No, we make sure they are in their room with our own door well locked up before we start anything.
After others have gone to bed, I went into her room as she was finding it difficult to sleep, she was happy to see me in her room and she pleaded I slept I her room, I lay on her bed with her and we got talking. I wanted to find out a lot from her about her nanny.
Their Nanny picks them up from school everyday to her house,while we pick them up from her house later in the evening. She’s a grand mother that has her last daughter and two of her grandchildren( a boy and a girl) living with her. The grand son should be between 11-13 years, the same age bracket with her last Daughter. My daughter is so fond of the boy, according to her that the woman’s daughter beats her a lot while the boy protects her. I like all of them because they are very respectful and appear to be good kids.
I was so shocked when my daughter confided in me last night that the boy touches her bombom. I laughed over it not letting the shock appear on my face so that she could tell me more. She told me a whole lot of things that I can’t type out her.
When I asked her to show me how and where the boy used to touch her, she touched both her clit and cunt and added that it was painful. I asked her why she hasn’t reported him to either the Nanny or me and her Dad, she said that the woman’s daughter reported to her mum and she beat the boy and he cried well. My daughter is the kind of child that jokes over everything, even as she was telling me all these, she was still making fun of the whole thing. I just picked the important ones.
Hubby was so pissed off and wanted to take action this morning but I pleaded with him to let me handle it. But I’m so confused on what to do. Please advise me in order not to destroy my daughter’s personality or that of my family. Though she said I should talk to her nanny or better still that I should start coming to pick her from school which I can’t see the possibility.
If I don’t handle this well, hubby might ask me to resign, I can’t imagine being a housewife. Please help a sister, I don’t mind insults provided I can get a meaningful message from it. Sorry for the long post.
The truth is you have to get your daughter out of that abusive environment first. If it means you taking some time off work, stay with them and look for a live in nanny where you can properly monitor your children. Put cameras /surveillance in place for your mind to be at rest.
I know it’s hard being a working class mum especially a banker, but you might start considering some other vocation that can give you more time for the children because there are many predators out there.
Thanks sis Lauretta.