A very horrified wife shares her story and how confused she is about what decision to take. Whether to report him to his parents or ask for a divorce: She initially thought that maybe he did that in the past before they got married but she saw a video of him at work with his wedding ring on his finger:
A horrified wife has revealed the moment she found out her husband was a gay porn star.
The anonymous woman, 26, from America, took to Reddit’s Relationship Advice forum and explained: ‘I was watching porn while my husband was asleep. I clicked on a random video and it was definitely him. His face was fully visible.’
Describing her mood as ‘furious and disgusted’ after discovering his secret, the ‘devastated’ wife vowed to take screen grabs of the X-rated video – and send them to his mother and boss.
And while some users encouraged her to confront him, others weren’t so forgiving and insisted she seek a divorce immediately.
‘Lawyer, Divorce. No contact,’ wrote one, while another penned: ‘This definitely qualifies as a “notify him with divorce papers” kind of transgression.’
The devastated woman claimed she had no doubt it was her husband thanks to his ‘unique tattoo’ which gave his identity away.
And to make matters worse, she revealed she knew the video had been filmed since they were married as he was wearing his wedding ring during the act.
‘He had unprotected sex with multiple men,’ she penned. ‘All I could think of was STDs. I didn’t sleep last night. I called off from work, too.’
‘First thing I went to a free clinic to get checked. I haven’t been home since. I don’t think I can f****** look at him. I’m so f****** angry.’
And the story took another turn as after she plucked up the courage to speak to her husband, he told her had a problem with crystal meth – and that he’d been meeting up with men from Grindr.
While he promised he would go to rehab, his distraught wife insisted it was too late and that she wanted a divorce.
Many shocked Reddit users took to the social media site to rally around the woman and begged her to cut all contact with her husband – with one particularly concerned reader going as far as listing a number of reasons why she should get rid.
‘This is actually a situation where I don’t support counselling or trying to work it out,’ the user commented. ‘1, He cheated on you with multiple people. It’s filmed and online. 2, He is sleeping with men, unprotected. 3, It took place after you were married.’
She continued: ‘4, He put your health and maybe even your life at risk and didn’t tell you anything about it. 5, Some cheating happens in the heat of the moment and was a ‘mistake’. This was not that. He planned this, knew about it, executed it.’
Advising the woman to seek legal action, another added: ‘You should find that video and download it to your computer. Then get a lawyer and file for divorce,’ while a third commented: ‘What he did to you is beyond cheating. He put your marriage, your health and your life at risk.’
Meanwhile, others took a slightly more understanding approach and advised she confront him about his actions first – and then say goodbye.
‘I would confront him in public,’ wrote one. ‘Text him to meet you in a public place where you feel safe. Ask him if he has been tested,’ while another said: ‘Show him the video. If possible save it and get some legal advice.’