Hello ma, I need your help please ma. Help me with how to tighten my varginia after having kids. I am a mother of five lovely adorable kids. My husband has been keeping this side chic for a long time now. People knew but I didn’t until recently.
I Just knew about it last year November… I confronted him before Christmas, we had a big disagreement but he has decided to stick to her for as long as he wants. I was so heartbroken ma. My Christmas wasn’t a happy one even though I managed to keep a happy face for my children’s sake. In my next world CS may become an option…
This new year, I have made up my mind to look after my 5 kids and ignore him to his philandering ways. He only manages to make love to me after a long while, sometimes even months . Extreme seduction from me, over trying to get his attention . After all my efforts, only for hubby to tell me that my Varginia is too open for him.
My heart has been broken and I feel embarrassed since he said that to me. I need to tighten my v’
Please what can I do to thicken the walls of my V after five kids I had through natural birthing?
REPLY:
It’s easy to say ‘don’t mind him’ but please do. He told you his truth, see what you can do about it. Make an effort to salvage things. He should also understand that anyday the side chick becomes a mom, her breasts will sag from extreme sucking and pressing by kids; Her stomach will develop stretch marks from pregnancies; her body will have scars from CS; She’ll develop dark eye circles from pushing babies in the labour room; She’ll need help to get her v’ tight again. Don’t kill yourself and please also have it at the back of your head that even if you were as tight as a fanta bottle neck, he’ll still cheat if he doesn’t fear God.
Please try kegels. It works. Do the exercises daily and with time you’ll see results.
- Try some natural remedies for tightening the v, like washing with aloe vera gel daily till you see results.
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Many women have good things to say about cloves. Soak them in water, leave to ferment for a few days and use the water for daily washing.
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I won’t suggest alum for you at all.
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The African woman hot water splashes too might help. Once in a while, get a hot water splash (Not burning water).
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