Got No Advice, Now We Are Engaged, About To Propose, What Should I Do?

Anuty Eya I sent you a mail last year before I got engaged to the guy I was talking about but you didnt paste it. Finally am engaged to the guy, getting married soon but I still need advice on how to manage our sexual activity. Plus did I mention the guy doesnt stay in Nigeria, so its not as if I ve been with him all these while. Please I need candid advices. Hide ma details oooo.

NOW: Dear Anuty Eya,please hide my details. I have been a silent reader of your blog. I wish to commend your good work. I am a young lady of 24yrs, have graduated and served. Looking for work.

 I met this young man whom i wish to settle down with. He is tall, handsome,has a good heart and above all a staunch catholic. But the problem now is that i found out that he has a small penis size ( not so small but not as big as i like) and ejaculates even before we start making out. i want to knw if it is
enough reason not to settle down with him considering the fact that he doesn’t satisfy me or i should accept him and help him overcome this problem.

 And if i finally do accept him,how do i help him overcome this premature ejaculation and
small penis? Anuty Eya i need advice please.
ASAP cos he is about to propose and i dont know the answer to give him 

18 thoughts on “Got No Advice, Now We Are Engaged, About To Propose, What Should I Do?”

  1. WEDDING TEST!!! –Adults Only-
    My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating 4 over a year and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me…It was her beautiful younger sister. My prospective 21 year old sister-in-law, always wore very tight miniskirts, and often times was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me,and I always got more than a nice view.
    One day her little sis called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived,and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn’t overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I get married and commit my life to her sister.
    Well, I was in total shock, and couldn’t say a word. She said, I’m going upstairs to my room, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me. I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go upstairs.
    I stood there for a moment, then turned and headed straight to the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car. Behold, my future family were standing outside, all clapping!.
    With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said “We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn’t ask for a better man for our daughter Welcome to the family!”.({})
    I smiled and heaved a sigh of relief because I was actually heading to my car to get my condoms …NA GOD SAVE ME O!..share with your friend don’t laugh alone

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  2. So you already slept with him before engagement? You have seen what you were looking for. Don't settle down there and keep quiet if he is a good guy, continue runnin your mouth you hear? Do you know the shit we married women condone and cover up?

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  3. What can i say. There is more to marriage than sex although sex is an integral factor. The only issue i see here is that of premature ejaculation which can be resolved. Although i would ask u to do what your mind says so that if there are any issues regarding ur choice u would have urself only to blame. What if u married him before seeing d size wud you divorce him? As a woman place ur priorities straight. If a big monster size is ur priority., so be it.bdont be deceived by want u see on porn. U need God and urself to make dis decision and not the wives here. Cheers.

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  4. Its ur decision dear,if u think u can handle it in the future den go ahead.if not,don't start what u can not finish.as simple as a,b,c.

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  5. if he can't satisfy you sexually, you might be better off leaving him. you have to decide the type of relationship that works for you. i know women who don't care about sex. they just have sex cause their husbands want it. i know women who love sex and crave it even more than a man with money or fine face. you decide. if you really need the sex and he is not satisfying you, then move on. if you want to help him fix pre ejaculation, see a doctor before you marry him. don't marry him and hope it will end. as for the penis size, most of the options you hear about for increasing the size are not confirmed to work so it might be a waste of time to try them. he might be premature ejac because he doesn't have sex frequently. in any event, seek help with it. it won't get better just cause you're married.

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  6. so want her to marry and be bitter. just cause you're having a tough marriage doesn't mean u should encourage this young girl into one. if she can have a better marriage than you have, why not.

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  7. My dear this penis will not satisfy you if you go into this marriage and will be a continuous problem in your marriage so its better to choose a satisfying partner and stick to him than to go looking for one after marriage

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  8. Marriage is not all abt sex, u guys can form d habit of him romancing u well b4 penatration, u can still see doctor to help. Marriage is all abt love and contempted

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  9. A bird in d hand is worth 2 in d bush. On d oda hand, don't get married 2 d 1st man dat proposes 2 U jus bcos U feel U r ready. See, sex is very important in marriage as it will b d bond 2 tie U 2 together 4ever. Without it, d devil will find a way 2 gain entry in2 ur union and cause dissatisfaction and promiscuity. Pre ejaculation can b dealt wt wt gud therapy bt nt small penis size. Dat my dear, is a permanent feature U must endure if U decide 2 marry him. If U love him dearly, av a talk wt him abt his pre ejac and lovingly help him find a way 2 handle and overcome it. D size of d penis does nt determine its use and enjoyment bt d skill of its owner. Thr r husbands wt huge penises and lasting stamina dat will take their wives 2 d 10th heavens bt dats all dey r gud 4, Sex! So don't get confused over dis issue. If ur man is willing 2 seek help, den U r gud 2 go. If he is nt and sex is important 2 U dan character den its up 2 U 2 make dat final decision weda 2 stay or leave.

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  10. Go to sdks blog. There's tjis guy called dr okechukwu. He posted something that will help. Mak sure ur fiance exercises very well.

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  11. There is so much misinformation and so many bogus products surrounding penis enlargement that when they discover the solution, no one will believe. So here goes; any male can permanently increase length and girth in the same way a bodybuilder adds mass and becomes larger. As you stress tissue, the body goes into a natural process of creating new cells making you larger. The question is not whether permanent enlargement is possible but instead, how do you safely stress penile tissue to promote cell growth? The answers can be found by looking up Magnum Rings on Facebook or online.

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