I need advice before I make a mistake cus am really heart broken.my story is long but i Will cut it shot.i married my husband when he has nothing.we started with a room and parlor still I don’t mind . despite that my family is ok more than their own still I married him not minding material things.so after three years of suffering with him God bless us he traveled abroad.mummies could u believe that my husband lied to me that the work he is doing over there is 130k that he is receiving as monthly salary not knowing that my husband is collecting 400k per month ? for the past 3 years three years I have been a complete house wife cus he made me believe that he don’t have enough money to open a business for me.
he only send us 70k every month and I have 3 kids.not knowing that my husband has open a business for his two sisters worth 300k each and they are already married with children ooo .he also opened a cement shop for his sister’s first son and enrolled the second son in university.
the second sister’s children he enroll them in any career of their choice while am at home believing that there is no money.this the guy my parents assisted in every way for me to be comfortable in his house please is it fare ?
I have not wronged him in anyway for him to be doing all this behind my back.if not that he came back of recent and I went through his phone I wouldn’t have known what is going on.
pleasE, how do I go about this issue ? Although I confronted him and told to settle me since it has gotten to this extent but he has been begging me to forgive him and that I should not tell my parents cus he don’t have excuse for his actions.please how do I handle this cause I don’t even know my husband again because of this lies.please notify me when posted so that I read ur comments tnx.
WAO!
fORGIVE your husband. If you cannot relocate with him, then, let him set up a good business for you. God will help him to realize that after marriage your a no longer a different human being but one. God will open his eyes to start seeing you as a member of his family too and not just the mother of his children.