Nollywood Actor Ejike Asiegbu’s wife Oge caused a stir online today. I guess we all have seen her post on blogs. She
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Confession: In a childless marriage for 12 years
Should I tell my husband after all these 12 years of hiding my twins from him? There are a few things involved right now. I feel for you and wish you didn’t have to wait this long before feeling this way. Right now it’s hard to say what your husband’s reaction will be like. Will he ask you to choose between your twins and him? Will he be ready to forgive easily? Can he forgive you at all after all these years?
This is not something you can hide forever, it would have sure blown in your face whether you tell him or not.
This might be the end of your marriage considering you are yet to have kids for your husband.
- I don’t know but, feel like It’s too late to reveal the teenagers to your husband but always have it at the back of your mind that one day he’ll find out and that might be the end of your marriage.
- Just leave and go take care of your children because you have really destroyed trust. Can he summon courage to trust you again?
- After introducing these big girls to your husband, is he free to adopt them? If not, what’s the point right now? Unless you want to break his heart and send him or you or all four of you to an early grave.
- Pray you still have your oxygen intact after the confession.
- If you had kids for him, would have made things a bit easy but right now he is still childless and then you introduce your 14 year old kids after 12 years of marriage?
- Ask for a divorce straight up. Give the real reason you are asking for the divorce, that you have deceived your husband for too long and can’t bear it anymore, then see what happens next but don’t be around when the divorce papers are served. He might just call you to settle the matter matter and forgive you instead of divorce. However, what ever you do, don’t be alone with him for sometime because this thing dey pain.