Hello Aunty Eya, kindly help me post on the wives blog. I needs readers comments and help please. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now with 3 kids but I have never enjoyed him in me. I still have memories if my University days and how it used to be so much fun and climax with my then fiance although things didn’t work out between us. I graduated, got married and I do truly love my husband but not in the bedroom. The 3 kids we have is just by the grace of God. He has never lasted even 2 minutes in me and that makes me wonder how I get pregnant in the first place. Most of the time, By the time I begin to think of relaxing and enjoying him, he has already ejaculated and will soon fall into a deep sleep. I complained to him that I suspect he is suffering from quick ejaculation but he countered and explains that not every man can go more than 2 minutes.
Anty Eya pls help. I don’t want to live the rest of my life in a man’s house never experiencing pleasure. There were times I hissed at him after everything. If things continue this way, I fear may never enjoy orgasm with him and God forbid that I even think of
cheating. He doesn’t care much about that though but unfortunately for me am one of those ladies with very high libido.
Some time ago, I watched keeping up with the Kardashians, the episode where Kris added viagra or some libido drug or something to then Bruce Jenner;s tea which Rob accidentally drank and couldn’t get his manhood to relax for a long time until their mum had to confess that she added something to that tea to make her husband touch her. My husband doesn’t drink tea at night. Are there other ways I can give the viagra without him knowing?
I would like to know if it’s Ok for a wife to add a little viagra to husband’s tea to help him perform better? and if it’s ok, pls what quantity will not be too much for the lil man?
How come this issue wasn't resolved at the start of the relationship?
Did you think he was going to change? After 3 kids it might be a bit difficult to change.
I'll suggest you discuss the issue of viagra with him. You might create serious problems for both of you if he finds out or if he has a negative reaction to the viagra. Viagra can cause serious health complications.
Bear in mind that even after using viagra you might not have a fantastic sex life like you had with your ex. Also its the way the man uses his tool that makes you enjoy it. Try and get him to pleasure you in other ways to get you aroused and to climax before he goes inside you.
All the best.
Libido is the determinant of sexual drive, sexual energy in every individual. This couple are simply not sexually compartable, they operate at different sexual capacity, this same scenero had lead to most cheating and divorce in marriages…… Madam you have admitted that you have a higher libido than your hubby, so don't be deceive and as a contemporary woman pls look for alternative means of achieving organsm without cheating on your hubby, I recommend that you lay your hands on sexual toys, this for the mean time will reduce the dislike and hate that might pile up for is inability to take you there, .
Viagra is not a very healthy drug, it has a bad effect on d heart, what if you succeed in getting ur desired pleasure and in d process send ur hubby to an early grave? For me I see this life as a passing thing, some people had d best romantic guys but maybe an accident dat will claim their lives or paralyse them happened. Sometimes it's even d wife health issues will take away d desire to even have sex.
Let us learn how to accept ourselves they way we are, sex is good but it's not a do or die, channel your energy in giving ur kids ur all. While am saying dis is its possible ur hubby may not be able to satisfy you in bed d way you want then what? Cheat? God help us.
I hope u won't kill your husband with viagra because of sex madam? Sex is not food but i know its should be something one enjoys, madam, take your husband the way he is and get your mind off cheating expect u have done it in his absence. Life is too short to be disturbing one's self about sex.
Would you like your husband to swap your contraceptive pills for something else? Do to him what you want him to do to you.
Two of you need to sit down and talk. Find a time when there is no distraction, not when one is feeling sleepy or worked up. Drugs have side effects. I have seen a man who had a heart attack after taking viagra.
go and get SAMSU oil in any big time store. Thank me later.
God bless you Pat wish the write will heed your advise.
The person who advised you about the oil is a good person,sex is not food? I'm married too and have same problem with my husband and I took steps.I have a high libido too so yes sex is food.