A Plea To Former Posters

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Hallo Aunty Eya,

 I was delighted when I discovered your blog and since I have never missed out in any stories and comments. As a single lady I have learnt a lot and am still learning. You really have matured readers.

  My mail is not for advice
even though I need one I would put it on hold till the right time.

  Lots of people have received advise via this blog and I oblige the former posters to share how they managed to handle their problems and what advice they decided to follow cos I believe that it would help numerous out there. 

Please former posters, tell us how you handled your problems eventually, what advise you got on this blog and decided to follow. Let us know, maybe it worked or didn’t.

  As much as I read about people’s problems I would like to know ” the happily ever after” of it all . I would like to know that problems got solved at the end of the day. That is my own little opinion. Thank you

LYNDA
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25 thoughts on “A Plea To Former Posters”

  6. Oh, thanks for this platform o jare.

    I'm d poster of 'should i cut off all ties with my ex' …
    I'm back with my friend, i took the advice somebody gave with the point that 'good friends are rare to come by' and i must say, i ve not had any reason to regret my decision. Infact its as if nothing happened. We are back to our normal selves, we gist, laugh, encourage each other etc.. I'm thankful to everybody that commented on both my post and hers, y'all saved my friendship. And those that are looking for such friends, my advice to u is that u make urself d kinda friend u would love to ve. Good attracts good and vice versa… All the same, thank u all for being there 🙂

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  9. I av bin thinking abt dis too, posters shld often come back n share der success stories, if not for anytin, for appreciation atleast.

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  10. hi everyone… i really am very grateful for your support and advice and i guess its high time pple stop referring me as ikorodu lady..(lol)..my middle name is odunayo, pls call me that.
    As regards the job..i didnt take the job cos of the toll it wil take on my child and my already saddled marriage, so i mailed the coy and declined the offer citing the long hrs (inclusive of saturdays) as reasons. they emailed back offering me concessions for being a mum and i shld come in and discuss it in person.they had already sent me an offer letter then…but i stil said no cos i didnt wanna sign something that i may regret. the following day i got a call from the coy telling me they have decided to cancel saturdays for me and i wld work regular hrs during the week cos they really want me on board and that they will send me another offer letter to that effect. so voila! i took the job! and i figured since its an online business,after a while i may not need to be physically present everyday at the office as long as i hv my phone n the internet ..i can wrk regardless of the location.
    i ll start next wk.
    Right now am looking at putting modalities in place as to how to make it easier for my son.(am looking at the ferry option to mk my journey home faster and also whether hubby will put him near his wrkplace since he closes at 4.30 and he wrks on the mainland.
    As per my marriage..its a work in progress and am taking each day at a time..i am working on being the bubbly, happy go lucky girl that i was before and doing my best and i hope in time this will reflect upon my marriage.
    as for the house building thing hubby is still adamant in building a house before our rent expires in june..he s so headstrong that i dare not advise otherwise..i have refused to let it bother me so i hv adopted a 'siddon look approach' to the situation. we all know the clock is ticking away, so it will be interesting to see the outcome.
    I have so much love for this blog ..reading comments of support n encouragement overwhelms me each time i go back time n time to draw strength and wisdom.
    I appreciate everyone here and i wish u nothin but love n God s favor..most especially aunt eya.. the aunt i dont know but have grown to love her for her compassion. Thanks n God bless y'all!!!!!

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  13. @Odundayo: I bless God on ur behalf!! Tears just rolled down my cheeks as I read ur testimony! U r indeed favoured and so shall it continue… Pls do gv a testimony in church for this oo(it can only be God).. See hw d job played out to seeking 4 u not d oda way round…God's blessings addeth no sorrow,so my dear have faith dat ur work will last,ur baby will be fine and ur hubby in no time will appreciate u better. Pls don't change from wat u've started with ur hubby,pray 4 him and love him even more..In d end,u will hAve more happy stories to tell and all to d glory of God!! Bless u dear,big hugs!

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  14. I am d lady who asked if I ¢øυℓd give my hubby a second chance and still trust him again(kate) sincerely speaking, dis is a life saving blog. Evry advice I saw here were like iodine healing my wound; I'm happy wit him, cos truly dis is a man I ve been living wit for d past 13yrs, I love him more than ever nw, he proved to me dat never will he try such again, not only his swearing on d alter, he did smthing dat swept me off my feet dat I was convinced he will never try such, a matter I hid frm his family and mine, he travelled witout I knwing and made open confession to both families for them to forgive him and also beg me; for 8 yrs my hubby has nt seen a pastor preaching in d church , u knw what I mean, I was surprised to see him prepare for church dat sunday, I never knw smthing awaits me in d church, after d sermon, d pastor came out and told d congregation dat a certain man came to his office weeping, confessing his sins, and he wuld like to stand in d church and confess his sin again and also beg his wife. I never had a hint, wen his name was called, I felt like death taking me away, he stood in front of d church and confessed and begged me, the pastor called me out, already I was soaked in tears, I had no option but to obey, he knelt bfore me and asked for my sincere forgiveness all over again, I was weak and speechless and only nodded, Lo and bhold he handed me a key to 2010 Murano jeep right there. 3wks after he asked me to accompany him to a place, no clue whatsoever, he took me a shop under lock and key, and gave me a key to open it, I did and I was so shocked to see dat d shop was stocked wit baby's stuff worth millions of naira, I was stationed at a spot crying; this was smthing I ve been begging him since I married him to start smthing for me. Presently his PA chipped to me dat he making a serious arrangement for me and my kids to go spend sm time wit his Aunt in d states. My hubby is nw a changed man, goes to church and never misses my regular midnight prayer. Even if I'm tired that night to pray, he will stand, do it for abt 2hrs,the funny tin to me was on sunday, he refused my meals; Reason; that my excuse was not genuine enough to skip service. Aunty Eya, and evrybody dat advised me, I say a big thank you cos ur advice was a transport fare that took me bk home dat day frm d hotel I lodged, u guys said I shuld act as if he's not d only man in d world, dat I'm still doing and he's going out of his way at times to ve my attention, sm said I shuld ve smthing good doing, dat he himsef has done,sm said I shuldnt trust him dat he shuld earn it, my trust is nw an expensive one dat he's paying dearly to earn it, and so on and on
    Thank you so much, I LOVE YOU ALL

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  25. @kate,I bless God on your behalf for what he has started already,greater things are yet to come in Jesus name.am so happy I found this blog,I love you Aunty Eya and all other commenters.God bless you all.muah

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