This was shared on Social Media and different people had different pieces of advice to give. Some suggested the pregnant wife travels with them. Others advised that she begins to trust her husband and believe whatever he tells her. Another group wants her to wear her prayer garment and fight spiritually for her marriage as it seems another woman is too close for comfort. The fourth group wants her to go physical, invite her husband’s friend/colleague over and give her the warning of her life.
After reading this, please tell us your stand in the matter. ..
really need advice because I don’t know what to do. My hubby has this female friend that he is very close to, they are very close and she also helps him most time at his workplace. This Lady is a very nice person but then, I am not to comfortable with the way she is close to my Husband.
Some times, she calls my hubby to come drop her off at work and she has a car of her own. Some times weekend she calls my hubby to come help her out with somethings in her house and my hubby don’t hesitate when ever she needs his help.
He always make sure that he pleases her claiming that, that’s his own way of paying her back for her good deeds. He tells her everything about his family and about himself even about me his wife, he seeks advice from her, she also seeks advice from my Husband and this lady is not married she should be in her early 30s.
I was surprised one day like that, she called my hubby to come take her to the boutique where he bought cloths for me and my hubby called me on phone to tell me cos he wasn’t at home and hubby called to tell me that he was taking her to the boutique.
I was angry at my hubby and I told him to tell her that I know the place and that she should call me to give her directions but hubby was angry that I should try and understand that there is nothing between the both of them. I was clam, he took her to the boutique and she made choices of the cloths she liked while he was there alltrough waiting for her.
Sometimes when she sees my hubby with nice shirts, she tells him to buy for her and he buys them for her without wasting time. But if I were to be the one, he will tell me he doesn’t know my size and that I should go get it my self. When ever he takes food to work, the both eat it together. My major problem is this, my hubby came home yesterday, and he told me that this Lady told him that there is this land that wants to be sold out close to where she has a building, she owns a hostel in IMSU and she is also from Imo state and we are based in Asaba.
According to my hubby, he said he will like to buy the land because its an investment cos it’s in front of IMSU. Now the both of them wants to travel to Imo state next week a one day trip so he can see the Land. I told my hubby that he should forget about the Land, or I travel with them.
My hubby refused saying that I am pregnant and that he doesn’t want me to stress my self. Please mother’s I really need your advice on this issue should I insist on traveling with them, or let them travel?? And am I to quite about there relationship?? Could it be that the have something going on?? Please I need help cos am confused thanks