There are reasons why a lady (even a man) who appeared interested in you, suddenly cancels the second date/meeting. The first date was successful or so you think. Her first visit to your place, she was quite impressed. Suddenly she won’t take your calls anymore. She cancelled a second visit. Cancelled a second meeting/date and you are wondering what went wrong after all the prospects?
SEE WHY SHE CALLED TO CANCEL
Here are 20 reasons why she cancelled. A lady may never come to visit again. One or more reasons from below may just be why.
- Your character
- Poor hygiene (Your house is filthy and smelling of sweat or she was greeted by cockroaches)
- You asked for something that happens in the other room.
- Talked too much with poor listening skills. Talkative.
- You talked ill of your ex
- First impression gone below standard
- Poor entertainment. Perhaps you gave reasons you need to borrow her money to entertain her.
- She noticed you lack self control
- Your armpits hair unshaven and sweaty
- Body odor
- She can’t tell you that you have mouth odor
- Poor personal hygiene
- You didn’t offer to pay her transport fare back. Just offer first to see whether she’ll take or not, you didn’t. All you did was wave and say ‘bye bye, see you soon’
- You didn’t call to know if she’s safely back home.
- Proud. Ego. Talking too much about yourself
- Your desperation for seks when she’s looking for something more serious.
- You are fake. Not being yourself, not the person she has been talking or chatting with. You are social media obsessed… pressing your phone the whole time and not making her presence there your priority.
- Her strong sense of smell could perceive your dirty stockings and smelly damp leather shoes.
- Your standards are too high or too low.
- You treat others around you like domestic staff etc. without respect.
CHECK THESE POINTS
These reasons are strong enough to make her cancel. There are many more because every woman is different. Just make an effort at least. She’ll know. A lady is coming to know your place for the first and you leave dirty dishes in the sink. Do you expect her to come and clean?
Your house is dusty and you don’t care. Your smelly shoes are there. You can take them out at least for a great first impression. Because you want her to see you as one VIP guy, you start acting up and talking carelessly to other people around…
Ladies don’t like that VIP condescending ego. She’ll judge you by the way that you treat others, not necessarily her. Your anger issues just pop out like that on a date? Her first visit? You may have lost her already. If at anytime, you wondered why the second date got cancelled, check these points and more.