- Hold my hands, look into my eyes and say, Jane, I love you!
- Take me with him on foreign trips.
- Praise my cooking after every meal and give credit to my cooking rather than say; This is very good meat, Live chickens taste better than frozen ones.
- Take sides with me when I scold the kids and not just keep quiet.
- Try to read me and know when I am not happy.
- Always tell me what he intends to get me so that I collect the cash and make my choice of size and color instead of the dull colors he gets me. When I complain, the next set will have all the yellows, whites and reds. LOLz:-O
- Tell me the things I do that he may not like. I know it’s not possible to do everything right all the time.
- Celebrate every of my Birthday and Our Marriage Anniversary with a gift.
- Put my picture in his wallet like it used to be.
- Reduce his love for shopping and let me do it to avoid buying too much of what is not needed and too little of what is needed.
Can you list 5 things you wish your husband does for you? He may get to see this and change for the better, you never can tell…
LOL…@ your hubby, to number 5, remember he's not a mind reader.
As for my husband, I wish he would buy me more gifts and allow me to buy for him too. He's not into gifts #dazall.
I wish he would come now and stop leaving me wondering if he ever will. The rest will be listed when we eventually meet:)
Nice one Banke.
Pls can any1 teach us how to make smoked fish using the grill.
What type of fish is best.
D only idea I hv for now is to dry it in d sun or wait till summer, dry it very well then smoke using the grill.
I dont hv access to outdoor barbecue, I m sure that will turn out really nice!
Hmm I wish my hub will tell me I'm beautiful once In a while , comment on my cooking once in a while and buy me little gifts once in a while without being reminded of all 3. I wish he could be more romantic and affectionate with me feeling I'm forcing him to be. I wish he could give me cuddles and kisses without me going to beg for it or him wanting to go further down d sex lane. Lol I wish love making was as wild as it use to be without it being confided to our room coz of d kids, kai how I miss our courting/newly married days without kids but I guess u can't have ur cake and eat it.
Lol @ 3 and 5. I gave up that a long time ago. I no fit shout. If he doesnt praise my cooking, I praise myself. If he doesnt read me, I tell him straight up what the problem is. Gone are those days when I will be feeling sorry for myself waiting to be asked.
I also wish my hub will buy gifts on our special anniversaries. My hub buys me gifts randomly throughout the year, but when it comes to bday, wedding ani, and vals, nothing for me. Last vals, he bought me two expensive gifts a week to vals, just for the sake of it. On Vals day, nothing special. Not even a special kiss. And he knew it was Vals day. Anyway, I am not complaining cos gift is gift.
I wish my hubby remain lik I met 'interms of him being romantic'him evn after 10yrs. I wish dat he gives me moni without me asking'lik am a begi begi' I wish dat he tells me d truth alws maybe I made a new hair and it doesn't fi my face u tell me nt after 1wk he wuld say'change dis ur hair it nt bEen so nice'but I asked u wen I made it and u said it ws lovely. I wish he smiles more often cus he is too serious and am playful.
I wish dat my hubby does more and say less.promise too much and he 4gets dem.I remind him and his lik ohhoo I said dat? Yes u did! I wish my hubby wuld alwz hold me close and let's hv dis perfect romantic moment of discussion.Instead f me starting it alwz. I wish for mor gifts.
1. I wish my hubby continues to be as forgetful of my flaws as he used to be.Never remembering them.(Wish I can be same to him and stop pointing at flaws and comparing).
2. I wish he buys me gifts on every occasions like Christmas, Valentine's Day, My Birthday and Our Anniversary.( Why expect what I don't do? My excuse that he doesn't need anything and I can't think of something he doesn't have.#BadExcuse. What is wrong with getting him another set of pyjamas or a newer pair of casual slippers or another bottle of aftershave???
3. I wish my husband takes me with him on all his trips. ( Eya, you are not serious o, what happens to the kids and school, do you take them along and forget school or you enroll them in Boarding Schools for Primary School children to show how great a mother you are)??
4. I wish my husband complements my cooking the way other guests and friends do:(
5. I wish he was softer and not too principled. Wish sometimes he could just do some things without thinking about his tough principles. I wish, I wish I wish.
I think the correct word is *compliments my cooking
Y̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥å! He shld appear 1st den we can negotiate d rest
I'v bn away on ds blog 4a yl, hope I avn't missd much.
I wish he wld be more romantic- he is a medical doc, if he is nt on call, he is either busy readg/surfg d net downloadg med texts. Wish he cld cr8 more tym 2take us out (emphasis on more)
Oliver Twist ehehehn
Hehehehe strong prayer points here.
All I can say is Amen to all ur wishes.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
I wish my hubby will let me have all his passwords.
I wish he'll let me know how much he truly has
I wish he will tell me he loves me and say also that I'm beautiful
I wish he gives us his weekends instead of spend them drinking with friends.
I wish he increases my monthly allowance so that all my salary stops going into family expenditure. Don't I deserve to save for "ME"?
I wish he learns to buy simple things like suya and ice cream sometimes when returning home.
Hahahahaha wives and their wahala, just lol'ing at all ur comments. Amennnn
Help me I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the kitchen.
Buy me lot a̶̲̥̅̊ñ̷̊D̶̲̥̅̊ lot of gifts
Take me out on trips.
Vicky
Help me I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the kitchen.
Buy me lot a̶̲̥̅̊ñ̷̊D̶̲̥̅̊ lot of gifts
Take me out on trips.
Vicky
We'll negotiate when we meet. Anyway about the secret recipe thingy we said we are going to start be when are we starting. Can't wait.
me…i have stopped wishing a long time ago…i have faced reality
So help me God..
LOl at all d wishes.
I wish my hubby wasn't too playful as an individual,it makes people want to take advantage of him somtimes. I'm mor or less like his Voltron.#sigh.
Awesome. Hubby does 1 but mostly 3,5,7 very well. I wonder how he manages to know 5 but I blush inside each time he does.
I wish my husband will take me out to eat barbecued fish often.
I wish he will send me all those sweet text messages he used to( My bad: Can't remember when last I texted him of my love if not on bbm which he usually reciprocates)
I wish he can increase the monthly money and believe/allow me drive myself whenever he's around.
You missed a lot, ask Bonario and Ace, Then ask Ahdaisy and Dr Sting about their dramas??? hehehehehehe.
I wish he would concentrate on our family more, plan for d kids, invest In properties just stuff dat secure our future!
I wish he would stop buying tins like cloth, shoe,toys for d kids.he buys dem at very high prices dat makes me angry!
I wish he would just dash me money witout asking most time I look lik "begi begi"
I wish he would spend more time wit me n d kids lik go on vacations, gist, attend pprograms etc
I wish he would defend me more especially in front of my sis in law!
I wish he tell me am beautiful often!
I wish he would stop frowning wen he sees me wit ma phone!
The chikoo
1.I wish he buys me gifts more often. On my last birthday,he only gave me some cash to buy what I want after I'd nearly nagged his head off.Lol
2.That he'll learn to overlook my flaws and mistakes more.
3.He learns to compliment my cooking,especially when I slave so hard to make d food.
4.I wish he'll learn to say "and u told me o,I should have foLlowed ur advice"after I warn him not to do something and he still goes ahead to do it,and it boomerangs on him.
I wish he cld me more romantic; he is a medical doc-if he's nt on call he is busy readg/surfg d net downloadg all kinds of med books; wish he cld cr8 more tym 2tk us out; (emphasis on more). Oliver twist ehehehn
Kai…..so dis is all wat u married women see wit dese men n u expect us single ones 2 want 2 get married 2??? I'm gettin soooooo nt interested as d days go by. I comot my cap 4 all of una o,una dey try.
I always wish,but der isn't a perfect man and pple change over time. I always wish,but now I don't except much.
@anonymous 2:52 darling to each his own. Just pray that you find someone who fulfills you. Just because someone isn't happy in their marriage does not mean that the rest aren't. I'm single but I hope to meet my husband one day. All of the horror stories I hear don't deter me 'cause I know that mine won't be like that. And I use this opportunity to pray that God restores every marriage according to the couples' desires.
@Banke…its nt lyk I hvnt been married b4 o,I hv n it was a terrible experience,I'm out n hapi 2 b single again n I'm nt planning 2 ever tow dat lane again nt wit all dese gists here abt d bad attitudes of men. Honestly,I'd rather b single all my life as 4 u,I wish u well in finding ur Mr.right n I hope u dnt go tru wat I went tru. In d mean tym,hv fun wyl u r stil single cos MARRIAGE IS BONDAGE.
I wish the hubby will come cos this would be a perfect time to reveal himself then we'll take it from there.
I wish my hubby will trust me more, compliment my cooking, buy more gifts for me,make me his priority,believe in my judgement on things.
I wish my husband wl love food,eat more and add a little weight cos he s lepa nsees food as punishment no matter how delicious
i wish he can take i and d kids out n stop spending d weekend sleeping,watching videos n playing games.he hates going on outings cos he neva had a girl friend so was neva used t dt(churchious man u knw)
i wish he can start loving sex,,,he was a virgin wen we met,so sex doesnt bother him.i always mk d move
wish he can buy me gifts on val,bday n anivv…wl always say his mum neva trained him dt way
i wish,i wishes.i wisheeed
Aww @ no. 9, lol @ no. 3 and LMAO @ no. 6