Hi,
This is not like a full post o. It is to inform all those who asked for the name of my Sex Education book, (not written by me) which I couldn’t find on the shelf. I found it, updated the sex Education
post. However, on second thoughts, I feel like some of us may have forgotten and may not go back to see my favorite Sex Education Book “Preparing Your Daughter For Every Woman’s Battle
It is so easy to read and understand. Like I said when I updated the old post, this book is divided into two parts: One for the parent and the second part for the parent and the child. It teaches you what to say and how to say it.
A little from the back cover: … Girls are bombarded with messages about sex- from friends, advertisers, media icons and more. All of these along with the whirlwind of emotions that accompany puberty can leave them confused. Filled with unasked questions about boys, dating, sex and their own value… Recognizing how awkward it can be to confront the topic of sex, Author Shannon Ethridge guides you and your daughter through enjoyable yet memorable discussions about sexuality… Author Shannon Ethridge is a wife, mother and lay counsellor. She got a Masters Degree in Counselling/Human Relations. To see some of the topics you’ll find in the book, Go to… How To Teach Sex Education Without Tears.
*Clears throat* urm, Well, for parents of boys. I wish I can help. I have not had the privilege of teaching any boy Sex Education
Anyway, may be, you tell the boys that whoever impregnates a girl will be forced to marry that girl and be ejected out of the family home to start a living alone with new wife. LOL!
You can shop the book on Amazon, follow this link: Preparing your daughter for every woman’s battle
Sis Eya, thank you for this. I will go a searching for this book. It seems to me like you don't have a male child. Eyaaaah don't worry.
Why Eyaah? What is the difference between a male child and a female? I don't think this your comment was necessary pls.
Awwww. Nice one Eya. Pls any idea where I can find it?
can be found in good bookshops. Lokay Bookshop in Abuja. For other cities, you can check online to see which bookshop sells.
Nice one Eya, many would be glad for this recommendation.
Thanks for sharing
Aunty Eya, i need to learn how to make 'Ewa agoyin'…..Can somebody please teach me? Thanks.
Ewa Agoyin recipe: http://www.wivestownhallconnection.com/2013/02/ewa-agonyin-sauce-by-lamide.html
Me too Shishi, I need to learn to cook Ewa Agoyin. Someone please remember to take pictures when you cook Ewa Agoyin. pls help two sisters here.
Me 3,pls make it 3sistas,i need 2 learn 2 make it too. I miss it badly,nw dat i no longer live in Lagos.
There is a step by step recipe on the blog now: http://www.wivestownhallconnection.com/2013/02/ewa-agonyin-sauce-by-lamide.html
i know how to cook it but am not cookin it now .i wonder if u'l get without pics.but believe its very simple.
Ingridients
Beans
Onions
P.oil
Salt
Maggi
Dried pepper(not smooth)
Crayfish-grounded(optional).
Procedure;
Cook the beans(adding onions) until tender then add ur salt and/maggi for those who put maggi to their beans.stir very well till it looks marshed,remove from fire .while cooking the beans,pour the (roughly grounded)pepper in a bowl and add water.soak it for some minutes.put ur pot on fire and pour the p.oil.then add pepper and cover the pot.leave it some minutes then add ur salt and maggi and onions.leave it again until the it seems its burning then u remove it from fire and serve with the beans.
Note;u may have to cover ur nose as the pepper will make u sneeze. Also what makes ewa goyin goyin is the slightly burnt pepper.hope this helps without pics?
Looooolz aunty Eya dats unfair,why treat d male dis way,we also fall victims atimes,d threat mechanism is an old method of sex education. Don't want my sons to catch me napping,coz things av changed.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Thank you Blue Love. I will try using the picture less recipe lol. , hope it comes out great so that others can learn too. Thanks.
Thanks for disclosing your 'manual' for teaching sex education, Eya-every parent needs to have such information handy. Another writer, whose area of focus is on sexuality education is, Pastor Praise Fowowe. His books are very enlightening and he has a pack which includes, sex education for: parents, boys, girls, cds, etc. It comes highly recommended.
Sorry Bonario, OK tell your future boys that their arm pits, bum, penis, breast and chest are called private parts and as such no one should be allowed to touch them there.
No one should make them touch another persons private parts too. Teach them the real names of all the body parts including penis, scrotal sac, buttocks, nipples etc.
Tell them why some parts are called Reproductive organs. Let them know the Responsibilities that come with Procreation.
Teach them that sex is to be reserved for marriage. Let know about Cyber Sex and other Cyber crimes. Let them know why they cannot watch all Television Channels Or Videos.
Tell them honestly how you are responsible for dumping them in their Mommy's Tommy and where they passed to come out. **Do not tell them that the Doctor Cut their Mother's stomach to bring them out except if they were born through Cesarean Section.
Teach them to be bold and poke their fingers in the eyes of anyone that tries to (rape)force them to sleep (have sex) with them,and to shout for help while poking those fingers.
Bonarioooo, hope I haff tried o??
Thanks Ivy, when next I visit a bookshop, I will definitely look at Pastor Praise Fowowe's books.
Thanks too, for disclosing.
Oooo eya, oh my! You just touched my invisible heart with what you told bonario especially that part you said that "sex is to be reserved after marriage". Please our baby boys need sex education more. Men are the ones that indulge in fornication, lust, masturbation, rape and adultery more. Please they need serious ane extreme sex education. Build them up morally . Thanks to the lady the posted pastor praise's books on sex education. This is one of the best blogs ever.
Oooo eya, oh my! You just touched my invisible heart with what you told bonario especially that part you said that "sex is to be reserved after marriage". Please our baby boys need sex education more. Men are the ones that indulge in fornication, lust, masturbation, rape and adultery more. Please they need serious ane extreme sex education. Build them up morally . Thanks to the lady the posted pastor praise's books on sex education. This is one of the best blogs ever.
Eya u r really a blessing to ur generation… Kudos!!! To you for both the meal recipe and the teachin so far. You did not allow ur vision to die. Keep the flag flying.
I love the meal procedures wf ur pix… Please continue using those pix so it help d process easier. Thanks!!!
Thank you Anon, happy Sunday.
It's OK, thank you.
Hahaha! Thank you.
Bless you Ivy. Happy Sunday.
Thanks Blue Love. Happy Sunday.
Great resource! I don't have kids yet, but will do well to be prepared.
@Anonymous, Feb 14, 1:16pm, I can understand where you're coming from, the reality that boys also need sex education and shouldn't be left to their own devices as is most often the case.
But apart from rape which is forceful sex, it is not only men who indulge in adultery, fornication, etc. After all, most of these are consensual and as such involve a female partner to work.